Because of the tragic events in Connecticut this past weekend, I have a hard time looking at things the same way as I did before. As it did to so many, this tragedy struck a particularly close nerve for me because it was an elementary school affected. I’ve spent my career in elementary schools, and cherish the friendship of teachers, parents, and students I have forged there. Although I do not personally know anyone involved with the Connecticut shooting, I can’t help but feel like I do because they look and sound like those I know and love in my own schools.
During the weekend, I read a quote by none other than Mr. Rogers (Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood) that offered me the most consolation yet. He said, “When I was a boy, and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look to the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’”
As tragic as the events are, I am equally (or more) impressed with the tremendous work of the “helpers.” Far and wide, people have reached out with love and compassion superior to the hate and violence manifest on Friday.
Although this is an extreme scenario, the principle of being the helper applies to so many other less-extreme scenarios. As we begin a new school together, I’m excited to “look to the helpers.” Beginnings can be uncomfortable, nerve-racking, and intimidating for all involved but most especially for the children. I don’t doubt I’ll witness countless acts of love and kindness in the opening of the new school. I fully expect to see “helpers” consistently include others and make the new school as inviting, safe, and home-like as possible.
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